Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Way Back When-sday: Grandma Stratford

My grandma is one of my heroes. She was one of the kindest, most loving and accepting people I ever knew. Talk about spreading the love. She was a wonderful cook, and was always offering her delicious food and a warm smile to everyone: her neighbors, friends, the mailman, the grocery story clerk... this was a woman who embodied Christ-like love. Although we saw her every year at Christmastime, I didn't really get to know Grandma until I went to college.
She hosted weekly Sunday-night dinners at her house and all of the cousins who attended BYU came. These were elaborate affairs, with fancy tablecloths and crystal goblets, not to mention the delicious food. We sometimes brought roommates, friends, and, when applicable, significant others. It was great to hang out with my cousins, see Grandma, Grand Dad, and Aunt Marilyn, and partake of their love and warmth. Grandma always made us "sing for our dinner." We'd sing "The more we get together, the happier we'll be." This song embodied Grandma's philosophy on life. She also loved to play matchmaker. She would move my cousin Travis's roommates so they were sitting next to me, explaining "Cynthia's lonely."

Another song we always sang was "Have I Done Any Good?" Whenever I sing it, I think of her and am reminded to look outside myself and try to help others.

Grandma died a year after I got married, when she was 93 years old. I still miss her and appreciate her example. I gave Ben the middle name of Calder, which was Grandma's maiden name. I figured that was one way to keep her legacy alive.

Hip hip hooray, Graaaaaaaaaandma.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Phase Two of Christmas Vacation, a.k.a. Guess Who Learned How to Make a Collage?

A couple of days after Christmas, Erik's brother came from Utah and his sister came with her family all the way from Texas. The kids were excited to see their "far-away" cousins, and I even got to meet Liam for the first time, and he is almost three years old! Now that's just embarassing! We spent some time at the beach at sunset. It was beautiful. The kids all got soaked, of course. That's the mark of a good time, right?

After some more time visiting with family members, a few of us met up for a day at Disneyland. It was so much fun! We all had a great time at this magical place. I love Ben's look of awe as he watched the parade.

Here are a few for the Rasmussen relatives. This collage thing is so much fun. And a great way to post lots of pictures at once. I'm loving it.

We did see more family after this, but I was all pictured out by then. Suffice it to say that we saw almost every Rasmussen relative, and half of my family, within the last two weeks. It was so great. We loved it! Our lives will seem boring with just us now. I hope you all had a fantastic holiday! Since I didn't get around to sending a Christmas card this year (terrible, I know, especially since we had a baby this year), here is the picture I would have used. Pretend it has a nice newsy letter and our love and good wishes along with it.

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What I Did During Christmas Vacation, a.k.a. Guess Who Learned How to Make a Collage?

Wow, it's been a long time since I've posted. We had a very busy, and very fun, two weeks of Christmas break. We saw lots and lots of family, and then we saw some more family. The kids had so much fun playing with so many of their cousins. First we went to a cabin up in the mountains, where we played in the snow. That is a rarity for us, so it was fun and exciting. The kids built a snowman, and even Ben got up close and personal with the cold white stuff.
Here are most of the cousins we were with. They're great. And fun. And very, very tall.

The kids even went sledding for what may have been their first time ever. How sad is that? They had a blast. Caleb was all into it, going down the hill again and again. Very unusual for our physically cautious child. We were very proud.

After that we came home and celebrated Christmas at our house. Most of Ben's toys were hand-me-downs from his older brother and sister. Don't worry, I had them clean them off with disinfectant wipes first. :)

This was phase one of our Christmas break. Get excited for phase two.
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Monday, December 22, 2008

Santa in Training

Ho Ho Ho, Merry Christmas!
I figure, a mom only gets a certain number of opportunities to embarrass her children by dressing them up in themed clothing. Thus, I should take my chance now. And besides, I think he's pretty dang cute in this outfit. Wouldn't you agree? Even though I could barely squeeze the hat onto his big ol' head... one size fits all, I don't think so.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Friday Favorites: Peanut Butter Balls

I was introduced to these delicious little goodies several years ago by a friend at work. She brought some in to share with the office and I begged her for the recipe. I've included them in our neighbor goodie bags for the last couple of years and they are always a huge hit. She called them Buckeyes (it's an Ohio thing), but I like to call them Peanut Butter Balls, because, well, that's basically what they are.
The recipe is quite simple and doesn't take long, which already makes it a winner in my book.

Buckeyes (or Peanut Butter Balls)

2 lbs. creamy peanut butter
1 lb. butter, soft
2.5 lbs. powdered sugar
2-12 oz. packages chocolate chips
1/2-1 bar paraffin wax (I always use less, like 1/2 bar max for one recipe)

Mix butter, peanut butter, and sugar. Shape into balls and refrigerate one hour or more. They should look like this:
Meanwhile, melt chocolate and wax in double boiler (or just a reguar pan on low heat for those of us who don't have a fancy double boiler) until nice and smooth.
When the balls are hard, dip into chocolate using a toothpick or spoon. Set on wax paper to cool.My dear husband was helping me do the dipping this time. His tray is in the front. I love the man, but speed is not his forte. But his heart is willing, and I appreciate that. When you are done, they should loook like this:Put them in the freezer until hard, then you can store them in a ziploc bag and eat them one by one... or save them to give away. Or intend to save them, but sneak a few each day and then finally realize you need to make another batch so you have enough to give away. Not that anyone would do that. Anyway, there you have it, Peanut Butter Balls. Yummmm!

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Has It Really Been That Long?

Hi. I'm Ben. Nine months and one day ago, I was in here:
Since then, I've grown a lot.When I was brand-new...I only weighed 8 1/2 lbs. Now I weigh 22 1/2 lbs. Hmmm, let me think about that for a minute. That's an increase of 264.7%. Or something like that. My mom did the math longhand because my big brother broke our calculator and my mom doesn't know how to use the one on the computer. She doesn't know how to check the messages on her cell phone either. Don't worry, I'll teach her how once I learn to talk.
Yes, I'm pretty smart. And handsome. Now I've finally been out of my Mom's tummy for as long as I was in her tummy. I like it on the outside better. Or maybe that's my Mom talking.
Either way, I'm sure glad to be here. Happy Nine Month Birthday to me!!

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Avoidance vs. Panic

It all started when I got sick a week and a half ago. I was bedridden (thanks to the fact that it was Saturday and my husband was home, so I had the option. Midweek, Mommy doesn't get to be sick) with a bad cold. I decided to pull out "Twilight" for a little light reading. Unsurprisingly, I got sucked into the story once again. It had the added bonus of being a nice distraction from the flurry of Christmas preparations.
A week and a half later I've re-read 2 1/2 books from the series and am feeling pretty calm about Christmas. "There's not that much left to do," I tell myself. "There's plenty of time," I agree.

Cut to early this morning, 2:30 to be exact. I get woken up by one of my kids and, after getting them back to bed, I stay awake and my mind starts to wander. I start thinking about Christmas and the various tasks I need to accomplish over the next week.
I need to finish baking treats for the neighbors and take them around, practice for a musical number, clean my house to be ready for out-of-town guests and oh yeah, I need to feed them too. I also need to get ready for a cabin trip which means preparing food for a large group and making sure we all have weather-appropriate attire (which we don't). Oh yeah, and I'm subbing on the organ so I need to practice for that, I haven't even thought about a Christmas card yet, and do I even have any gifts for my husband???
At this point I start to panic. My neck tenses up and my heart starts to pound. I stay awake worrying about it all for the next 3 hours. Will I get it all done? Is there even enough time? Is it humanly possible to be ready for Christmas in just one week when I am so far behind???
I have no answers, just the resolve that I will TRY to pull myself away from Bella, Edward, and Jacob so I can make some headway on my long to-do list. And appease myself with the fact that I am likely not alone in my panic and long to-do list. This time of year, it's inevitable.
I think I liked avoidance better. I'll have to remember that in the future.

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